Raid train etiquette: the unwritten rules
Raid trains run on trust. These nine unwritten rules keep trains on time, keep the audience moving, and get you invited back to the next one.
Raid trains aren’t governed by official rules — they run on trust and reputation. Follow these unwritten rules and hosts will keep inviting you back. Break them and word travels fast.
Raid trains are organized on Raid Train Express, our partner. For questions about a specific train, like signing up, slots, the lineup or its rules, see the Raid Train Express help center.
1. Be on time, every time
Your start time isn’t a suggestion. The whole train is timed around it. Be live before the seller ahead of you raids in, so the audience lands on an active show.
2. Be ready before the raid hits
When a raid arrives, you have seconds to make an impression. Have your best items queued, your energy up, and a deal ready. A raid that lands on someone fumbling to start loses the crowd.
3. Always raid into the next seller
This is the golden rule. Even if your slot went badly, you pass the audience on. The train only works if the chain stays unbroken — skipping your raid hurts everyone after you, not just you.
4. Confirm the next seller is live first
Before you raid out, check that the next person is actually streaming. Whatnot only lets you raid someone who is live, so if they are not on, the raid cannot go to them and the train loses its momentum.
5. Don’t poach
Welcome the raid, thank the seller who sent it, and sell your stuff. Don’t trash-talk other sellers, don’t tell viewers the next seller is worse, and don’t try to permanently pull the host’s regulars. Trains are cooperation, not competition.
6. Tell the host early if you can’t make it
Life happens. If you have to drop, tell the host as soon as you know so they can adjust the order. A clean heads-up is forgivable; a silent no-show that breaks the lineup is what gets you left off the next train.
7. Match the train’s category
Only ride trains where your inventory fits the audience. Sending sneaker buyers into a coin show helps no one — and a mismatch makes the whole train feel off.
8. Thank people — hosts and riders
A quick thank-you to the host and the seller who raided you goes a long way. Hosts remember who’s gracious, and gracious riders get the good slots next time.
9. Keep the information clean
Half of all train chaos comes from confusion about who’s next. Know your slot, watch for your cue, and don’t blow up the group chat asking questions the running order already answers. The train’s page on Raid Train Express shows the live order for everyone, and if you use Backstage it goes one better: shortly before your slot, Backstage Lite and the iPad app count you down and show who you’re raiding into next, so you never have to ask.
The bottom line
Every rule here comes down to one thing: keep the audience moving and respect everyone else’s slot. Do that consistently and you’ll build the reputation that gets you onto the best trains in your category.
Next steps
- Hosting your first train? Read how to run a raid train.
- New to riding? Start with how to join a raid train.
- Find a train on Raid Train Express, and see what Backstage does during your slot.